Exponent Story Spurs Second Reunion of Childhood Friends From Displaced Persons Camp

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Israel ‘Srulik’ Segalovitch, now Ira Segalewitz, and Regina Puter, now Ruth Brandspiegel, in recent photos and in childhood. | Screenshots courtesy Dayton Jewish Observer; childhood photo from the collection of Ira Segalewitz
By Marshall Weiss

Editor’s note: Last month, the Jewish Exponent published an article by Sophie Panzer about the reunion of two friends, Sasha Eisenberg and Ruth Brandspiegel, who’d met at a displaced persons camp in Austria as children and hadn’t seen each other in 71 years.

They were brought together by chance, when one of them heard the other’s name mentioned during a High Holidays Zoom service and followed up.
When Ohio resident Ira Segalewitz read the Exponent story about the reunion, he recognized Brandspiegel as his childhood girlfriend from the same DP camp, and so another heartwarming reunion took place — again, over Zoom.


The below article is an excerpt from the Dayton Jewish Observer’s coverage of the second reunion; Segalewitz and Brandspiegel will soon appear on “The Today Show” to talk about reuniting.

“Ruth, I’m going to call you Regina,” Ira Segalewitz said from his home in Kettering when he saw his childhood sweetheart for the first time in 69 years, via Zoom on Nov. 8.

“Call me whatever you want, just call me!” Ruth Brandspiegel quipped from her apartment in Philadelphia.

The two 84-year-olds — surrounded by their children and grandchildren across the eastern United States on this Zoom reunion — were last together in 1951 at a displaced persons camp for Jewish refugees in Hallein, Austria.

“I kept thinking about you for a long time,” Ira said.

“Really?” Ruth asked.

“I had the hots for you,” Ira said.

“At least somebody had the hots for me,” Ruth replied.

For about 90 minutes, they remembered and shared photos they’ve kept from their time in the DP camp, which they described as heaven compared with the horrors they and their families endured because of the Nazis and the Russians.

Their children and grandchildren heard some of these stories for the first time.

“To me, what is so amazing is all the pictures that you brought with you from Europe in such a bad time during our history,” Flora Klein, Ruth’s older daughter, said.

“For us,” Ira said, “that’s the treasure. That’s what we carried with us. The memories. We didn’t have much else to carry, but we carried that.”

Ruth and Ira’s reunion came about after Ira read the Jewish Exponent story that included Ruth’s childhood name, Regina Puter.

“Finally, I got to the third page and it had your picture,” Ira told Ruth.
“And did you recognize me?” Ruth asked.

“I recognized you right away,” he said. “I came out and Eva [Ira’s partner] said, ‘What are you so excited about?’ I said, ‘That’s my first girlfriend!’”

Ira’s son Steve called Ruth’s son Larry to make the connection. Larry called Ruth to tell her, “Mom, your boyfriend is still alive.”

“As soon as I said that,” Larry said, “she was like, ‘My heart is beating fast again, I’m shaking again. Oh my God, I can’t believe it, this can’t be happening.”

Ira’s oldest son, Scott Segalewitz, said that after his father spoke with Ruth by phone Nov. 3, “the enthusiasm in his voice makes him sound like a teenager.”

Ira and Ruth share similar stories. Both were born in Poland in 1936: he in Sarny, she in Ciechanów.

The area Ira lived in came under Russian occupation at the start of World War II. When the Nazis began their attack on Russia in 1941, Ira’s father put him and his wife on a train headed east. Ira never saw his father again and believes he was killed in the Battle of Stalingrad. Ira and his mother wound up in the Ural Mountains. She worked in a Russian labor camp.
His mother was paid in scraps of food. In an interview with The Observer, he remembered his mother would return from labor with icicles on her eyelashes. A piece of cheese or a rat was a feast.

“My mother kept saying in the Ural Mountains, ‘It’s a good thing you’re my only child, because had I had two, we probably all would have died,’” Ira shared on the Zoom reunion.

After the war, they left the Urals and returned to Sarny after four months of walking and trying to catch rides.

“We finally got to Sarny and Sarny was totally demolished. The house we had was gone. Everything was just ruins.”

From there, Ira and his mother crossed four borders as they walked to Austria. They arrived six months later, in 1946. In the DP camp, Ira’s mother remarried a man who had fought with the Russian partisans; he had lost his wife and two children.

Ruth’s family fled when the Nazis arrived in their hometown in 1939. She was 2½.

“My uncle had a big truck,” she said. “He came to my Mom and he says, ‘Take the child and take whatever you need and whatever you want and get on the truck because the Germans are right behind us.’”

During the day, Ruth said, they hid in forests. By night, the uncle drove until they arrived in Ukraine.

“Over there we didn’t stay too long (until 1941), and they sent us to Siberia,” Ruth said. “My parents they sent out to dig ditches and I stayed home, almost 3 years old by myself.”

Both families arrived at the Hallein DP camp in 1946. On the Zoom reunion, Ruth and Ira shared pictures from their years together at Hallein.

“That was Purim,” Ira said of a photo marked 1950, with arrows pointing to them. “You were Esther, and I was the king, Ahashverus.”

“When we got to camp, to Hallein, that was already a good life compared to what we went through before,” Ruth said. “We didn’t know any better and we were happy.”

Ira agreed.

“This was healing, and the people there really tried to heal us,” he said. “They tried to do as much as they could.”

Along with the photos, Ira shared a memento he’s kept from the DP camp all these years: a handkerchief with the initial R.

“You embroidered that,” Ira told Ruth.

“I must have given it to him,” Ruth said, laughing.

“You must have,” Ira said, “or I stole it! We were pretty tight there for those times: running around, doing all kinds of things together.”

Ira’s and Ruth’s families were in the Hallein camp after the war because the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society at first had difficulty locating their families in the United States. Émigrés could only enter the U.S. with a sponsor.

“The camps were basically set up by where your destination would be,” Ira said. “The only place that would take us without any questions because we were Jews, you could come to Israel. HIAS did find my mother’s two sisters. My mother always knew she had two sisters in the United States.
She just didn’t know where they were, didn’t have an address. As soon as they found us, they soon after sent us a visa.

“And we thought we were going to the United States the next week or next month. We didn’t realize there was a waiting line, that the United States was not admitting too many people. And so, we waited five years.”

He and his mother and stepfather arrived in New York in 1951, where his aunts lived. There, his name took on a more “American” flavor, first as Ike, then as Izzy, until he finally settled on Ira.

Ruth’s family made it to Philadelphia in 1952, where her mother’s sisters and maternal grandmother had immigrated in 1929-’30.

She said her uncle changed her name to Ruth when he enrolled her at Girls’ High.

“I wanted to keep Regina,” she said.

Ruth worked as a bookkeeper, married Shloma “Sol” Brandspiegel in 1957 — a Holocaust survivor who lived in the neighborhood — and they raised their three children in Northeast Philadelphia while working in the retail businesses they owned. Her husband died two years ago.

After high school, Ira entered the army and served in Korea, married Zelda — whose parents had émigrated from Poland in the 1920s — worked in electronics and communication, with Zelda raised four boys, and made his career with ITT, from which he retired in New Jersey as president of its job training services division.

Ira and Zelda moved to Dayton, Ohio, in 2000. Zelda died in 2010 after 51 years of marriage.

“I really don’t believe I’m talking to you,” Ruth told Ira on the Zoom reunion. “Hopefully, after this virus, you can take a ride and come and see us.”

“Or maybe you’re going to take a ride there, Mom,” Larry said.

“My future daughter-in-law is from Columbus, Ohio,” Ruth’s younger daughter, Debbie Marks, added.

“I’ve had tears in my eyes since we started,” Ira said.

“When he called me, I almost fainted,” Ruth said.

Ira told Ruth that when he comes to see her, he’ll bring her handkerchief.

Marshall Weiss is the editor and publisher of the Dayton Jewish Observer, where a longer version of this article first appeared.

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