Doctor by Day, Sukkah Savior by Night

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After long hours at work, a Kansas City radiation oncologist builds sukkot for single moms, less-observant families and anyone else who might need a little help celebrating the harvest holiday.

In the office or the hospital right after morning minyan, radiation oncologist Jay Robinow has saved hundreds of lives in the Kansas City area. That’s his day job.

After work, Robinow has also saved hundreds of lives, but in a spiritual rather than physical sense. Since 2007, he has built or expanded more than 150 sukkot for people across the state of Kansas.


Profit isn’t the motive of this sukkah venture, the builder says.

“Let’s just say this would not be a good case study for the Harvard Business School,” Robinow jokes. “It’s definitely a money-losing business.”

That’s because any proceeds from Robinow’s sukkah projects go to the local kollel (institute for advanced Talmud study), and he also donates at least half of the sukkah parts. For example, Robinow often provides young couples with a sukkah during their first year living in his community of Overland Park, Kan. He buys and builds sukkot as wedding gifts and lends a hand to those who cannot afford a sukkah, such as single mothers or large Orthodox families. He also makes a habit of donating and building a few sukkot each year for less-observant families interested in exploring this Jewish ritual. More often than not, he says, the sukkah leads the latter families to greater engagement with Judaism, and sometimes even a transformation of their observance. 

“In some ways, it’s become a kiruv initiative," he says, using the Hebrew term for Jewish outreach. "But that’s not its purpose."

Robinow created the design for the sukkot he builds. He orders corner pieces from an online canopy store — “they know me by now and all about Sukkot” — and gets the rest of the parts fashioned at the local Home Depot. Because of his day job, he works late into the evening, often as late as midnight, to get the sukkot built each year.

Robinow recalls that the year the local Orthodox rabbi moved to town — the rabbi discovered just hours before Sukkot that he was missing the corner pieces of his personal sukkah.

“It was three hours until Yom Tov, but we started it all over," says Robinow. "I went and bought new materials, and the sukkah was up as the holiday came in.”

Over the years, Robinow has also roped his five children into the “business.” His son David, a senior at the local Jewish high school, says his father often loads the car with the sukkah gear and then drives him and his brother to an area home. Robinow unloads the materials and tells them to get to work. Then, while the boys build that sukkah, Robinow leaves to reload the car and build another.

“I’m like the shoemaker’s wife,” says Margie Robinow with a chuckle. “I had to beg for years to get my sukkah expanded. Finally, two years ago, he did it.”

Single mother Michal Luger says she is still in awe every time she pictures the night Robinow drove up to her modest apartment and built her a sukkah — the first she ever had. Her son, Shai-El, was born the day before Sukkot and she had always envisioned celebrating the holiday in their own sukkah. But financial circumstances and the inability to erect the structure on her own had kept that dream from becoming a reality. Last year, the day before Shai-El’s 10th birthday, at 10 p.m., Robinow surprised her with a sukkah.

“It was really, really exciting,” says Luger, who took dozens of pictures of her son in the sukkah that night and every night of the holiday (other than Yom Tov) thereafter. “It was the most amazing thing.”

Robinow was “as tired as anyone could be,” but he built the sukkah “with the biggest smile on his face,” Luger recalls, adding that her son's happiness was “tangible.” Shai-El ate every meal in that sukkah during the holiday and invited all of his friends over for a sukkah party, Luger says. 

For Marsha Johnston, Robinow was her first introduction to the Orthodox Jewish community in the Kansas City area.

“We just couldn’t believe Jay was so kind,” she says, noting that when he put the sukkah up seven years ago her then 14-year-old son was dabbling with observance through the Orthodox youth group NCSY. Today, her son is 22 and studying at a yeshiva. But whenever he's in town, he still drags out his mattress and sleeps in the sukkah Robinow gave them, Johnston says. 

Todd Natenberg and his wife received a sukkah from Robinow three years ago, just after the birth of their twin sons. Natenberg says he grew up with some Jewish traditions, such as celebrating Passover, but he had always wondered about Sukkot. Robinow came to Natenberg’s Leawood, Kan., home and the two built a sukkah together. Now, Natenberg builds the sukkah on his own every year.

“Jay is so concerned about the Jewish community,” says Natenberg. “Whether it’s by being a radiologist or helping to build sukkahs in a place like Kansas, he’s helping the world. He’s a model of Judaism, a model of what it’s all about.”

Robinow takes a more humble view. 

“People need sukkahs,” he says, surprised that anyone would be interested in his story.

Robinow does admit that it’s kind of fun to see his neighborhood, smack in the middle of a Kansas suburb, decked out with sukkahs. While he can’t take credit for all of them, the community knows he has played a pivotal role in its “sukkah-fication.”

“When we first moved here, there were maybe five or six" sukkot, says Robinow. “Now there are probably 30 or 40.”

Maayan Jaffe is a freelance writer in Overland Park, Kan. Reach her at [email protected] or follow her on Twitter @MaayanJaffe.

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